I just want to play mp with someone :(

Whenever i log online to have fun on multiplayer,I see that only one server is full,so i check what everyone is up to in the right. Everyone is playing levels or in the webchat,or maybe even in that server.

I only got to play PQ Multiplayer ONCE.

When i join a server,there is one guy saying that i need to spectate.

So i try to make my own server (which is working btw),but surprise,no one joins.

I just want to play multiplayer with someone

That one guy tells you to spectate because there's almost certainly a tournament match going on, and your input in playing the match would interfere with the game.
No one joins your server probably because you're not portfowarded. (You could be. I don't know.)

I am portfrowarded,I checked.