Fighting against the Obnoxious Friend Zone (love stuff)

Hey, it's time to talk about love stuff.

As you should probably know, I really like trying to date girls, and it never ceases failing, I really don't see why. But the most annoying and reccurent reason why I get rejected is that a girl made me fall into the Friend Zone. Falling in the "Friend Zone" means that you get considered as a "best friend" or "like a brother" by the girl, and it kills every hope of successfully dating her. And you never know how to avoid or get rid of this case. It happened the same for me. The girl says that I'm a nice guy but we should stay friends. When I heard it, I just wanted to shoot myself, because I thought I'd never date her anymore.

That's why I'm asking you, guys, did it already happened that you fell in the "Friend Zone" when trying to date a girl?

If yes, did you managed to get yourself out of it and how did you proceed?

Women often go for "alpha males". If they tell you you're a nice guy it's usually because they don't think you're "manly enough".

Being yourself is always a good tip as it will not make girls like you for someone you're not.

Just to add to what kalle said. Don't be afraid of being friendzoned, only thing that friendzone means is that she doesn't want to date you and your not her type, move along and don't look back (unless you wan't to keep that person as friend which is also good, better have more friends than enemies). It really depends on what kind of person you want to date, maybe hanging around places with people with similar thinking will bring something up.
Few other stuff collected over years.
Talk to with a girl as a human and treat her like that, be confiden't about yourself.
Don't go to girl thinking ''ohhh i instantly want to date her'' how about you get to know people as friends and maybe then something will spark up eventually, if she liked to talk to you shell give her number or something. It really depends on how open you are though but most people i know who have great relationships came through road of meeting as friends or just starting chat. The person I'm currently dating was from convention, I wanted to meet new people so I started talking with nearly random strangers and it turned out that I had something in common with one person. I hope you catched the drift.
+Another addition, try be more socially active, do something more outside, it will not only help making relationships easier but also make yourself better as a person. +People who spend lot of time at their computers have problems due to lack of social experience so it's important to know how to talk in public (beleive me this has hit me too many times, getting that experience is pretty important and it comes over time)


Also dating sometimes is just trial and error thing, you learn something new from every date, there are tips and tricks and whatnot but in general, be yourself, don't be total dick, sometimes thinking about what other person wants is a good idea, hang out more and something will pop up eventually.

Good luck.

Edit: just to add there is no fight against friendszone, technically it's just the fact that person politely says ''i'm not ineterested in you'', the worst case scenario is if that person is your crush, learning to forgetting someone takes time and it's sometimes very hard. Sometimes changing your life around changes yourself and maybe that change will bring you to different results. I believe sometimes friendszone is a good thing since you can ''dodge a bullet'' and eventually meet person that enjoys your company and you enjoy theirs. I'm going super phylosophical here, I hope you can take something good out of this.